Monday, March 31, 2025

Except you be as little children.

 My five-year-old daughter is not backwards in coming forwards about who her friends are. She has them ranked in a certain order (an order which may change from day to day, or week to week) but the beauty of her approach is there is no guile or deceit. You know exactly where you stand.

She has a young friend whom she has agreed to marry, when she and he arrive at marriageable age. Whether this comes to pass we will have to wait something like 15 years to find out, but what is sweet about their earnestness and frankness is that they aren’t pretending to hide the fact that they like each other and that they believe in the rightness of marriage.

Somewhere along the way they will become teenagers, and it may be (although I hope it isn’t) that they start to hide who they truly are by trying to become somebody they are not. That seems to happen in the teenage years. We try to be who we are not, in order to win the approval of others who are also pretending to be something they aren’t.

When Jesus says “Except you become as little children, you cannot enter the kingdom of God,” I wonder if he is referring to that attribute of children, that they do not hide who they are, nor what they feel. If they love someone, they say so. If they get lost in a shop, they don’t hesitate to sit down and howl for the moon, because they can’t see mum anymore. They don’t care who sees them crying. One of my children, in his younger days, said to a visitor, "Hey Jean, you're pretty fat. When is your baby coming?" That was an incredibly embarrassing moment, but the visitor was told the truth about her body image.

The most beautiful people I know are the ones who don’t pretend to be what they aren’t. They walk in the light because they want people to know who they are and what they are thinking. One individual in particular, of whom I am very fond, does not hold back her thoughts. She doesn’t suffer fools gladly, and it’s wonderfully refreshing to be in her company, because trivialities and banalities are completely dispensed with.

The easiest people in the world to trust are those who don’t hide anything. Maybe I make myself vulnerable by saying what I truly think, but if I don’t say it, then you don’t know what I am thinking. 

And if you don’t know what I am thinking, then you don’t truly know me.

And if you don’t know me, then I am
alone.

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Tuesday, March 25, 2025

The Widow of Maryport

    On one occasion, I think it was January 2023, I delivered to a widow in the town of Maryport, which is on the north-west coast of England, in the county of Cumberland. That particular delivery was the first time I had been to her house, and while introducing myself, she broke down in tears as she told me her husband had dropped dead in front of her, just four weeks earlier, in her bedroom. He hadn’t died of Covid, because he had had all the jabs, he died suddenly of a heart attack. And as she wept, she said to me “I just don’t know if he knew how much I loved him.”

    I chatted with her and learnt she and her husband, although married many years, had no children.  I think my visit gave her some comfort, as she just needed someone to talk to, and when I left I gave her a kiss, after the manner of Argentinians. And I always kissed her when I delivered on future occasions. I lived in Argentina for three years before coming to England. Argentines greet women with a kiss on the cheek when they meet them, and they farewell them in the same way. The greeting kiss is supposed to say “I’m glad to see you, you’re significant and precious,” and the farewell kiss says, ‘I’m glad I saw you, you’re significant, I hope we see each other again soon.’ I usually kiss women like that whenever they come to my house, because I want them to know that I am glad to see them; that they are significant; and that I’m sorry when they leave.

    But the lesson I learnt from that widow was that it’s not enough for me to love Linda. She has to know that I love her. Because if I’ve made sure that I show her that I’m in love with her, and she's precious to me, then if she dies suddenly, I’m not going to be plagued with the question ‘did Linda know how much I loved her?’ because I’m making sure that she knows it now.

    Listen to Jesus on the subject of love:
    
    This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you.  Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends. You are my friends if you do what I command you. (John 15:12-14)

    Little children, let us not love in word or talk but in deed and in truth. (1 John 3:18)

    Finally, brothers, rejoice. Aim for restoration, comfort one another, agree with one another, live in peace; and the God of love and peace will be with you. Greet one another with a holy kiss.
    (2 Corinthians 13:11-12)

    I think we’ll all live a lot longer if we make sure we kiss someone every day. For myself, I hope to live until I'm 120!

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Monday, March 17, 2025

To the Giver of Gifts.

Giver of gifts,
When I look at all the beauty
you have given
my eye to see;
O Lord,
whisper me wonderful words.
Adjectives abandon me.

Giver of gifts,
When I muse on the music
you have given
my ear to hear;
O Lord,
may my poorly penned poems
proceed as prayers.

Giver of gifts,
when I know all the love, joy and peace
you have given
my heart to feel;
O Lord,
make me tell tales,
of a life that is real.

Giver of gifts,
when I see all the people
you have given
me to love;
O Lord,
help me hug these good gifts given
from heaven above.

Giver of gifts,
when I comprehend all the promises
you have given
me to behold;
O Lord,
may my soul embrace my future,
before I grow old.

This poem finds its foundation in a passage of Scripture.

“Every good giving, and every perfect gift is from above, and commeth down from the Father of lights, with whom is no variableness, neither shadow of turning.” (James 1:17)

My poems are not as good as I’d like them to be.

But a poorly penned poem is better
than a perfect poem that is never written,
just as being a live fox is better than being a dead lion,
and a job finished, however imperfectly,
is always better than one never started,
or begun but left undone.

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Monday, March 10, 2025

One of the most beautiful things I ever heard.

 
One day in 2023 I was delivering frozen food to a lady for a company I used to work for. Her name was Mrs. Gabriel, and she lived on Whinlatter Drive, in the city of Barrow. As I brought the food into her house that morning, she said:
“You know I woke up early this morning, and I thought to myself, ‘I’d better not wake my husband,’ so I crept out of bed and came quietly into the kitchen.”
And then she looked at me, and she said smiling:
“Do you know he’s been dead for over ten years.”

I replied, “Oh wow, Mrs. Gabriel, that’s so wonderful. How long were you married?”
She replied, “We were married for over sixty years.”
And she smiled at me again. ‘I’m 95,’ she said.

I left her house that morning thinking to myself, “that is one of the most beautiful things I have ever heard. A man and woman so shaped their lives together, that even ten years after his death, she remembers him, and is shaping her life by the man he was - the man she loved.”

And I thought to myself, I want to be like Mrs Gabriel. I want to be married for sixty years, and when I die (if I should die first, which I probably will) I want my influence on Linda’s life to have been such that even ten years after I’m dead, she’s thinking of me.

Then Jesus answered, and said unto them … “But at the beginning of the creation God made them male and female: For this cause shall man leave his father and mother, and cleave unto his wife.  And they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh. Therefore, what God hath coupled together, let not man separate.”

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Monday, March 3, 2025

Blessed are the Peacemakers

The following essay is the result of some research I have done over the last four years. I have been thinking particularly about how a Christian might love his neigbours in a time of war, and how he might bless the nation, even if he won't fight for it. A copy of this essay was sent to my local MP.

In medieval times wars were fought privately through the funding of kings and were mostly disputes over territory. Because there was a limit to the king’s funds, and there was usually a specific territorial goal, wars were not as extensive as they became in the 20th century. Generally speaking civilians were not involved in the king’s conflicts. World War I (1914-1918) was the first war in the history of Great Britain, in which a general, nation-wide conscription was enacted. World War I was a much more ideologically motivated conflict than previous wars, with the USA entering the war in 1917 to advance the cause of democracy.
    In the United Kingdom, as British men (and women) were now directly involved by being called upon to either fight, or work in munitions factories, the question of conscience and the right of a man to live by his convictions came into sharp focus. Conscientious objectors were often considered to be ‘shirkers’, and increasingly, army leaders (who believed they could tame lions) were frustrated that they couldn’t ‘make lambs fierce.’ Many conscientious objectors were imprisoned, and a good number were subjected to torture when they were handed over to the army because their appeals for exemptions were denied. Some were even sentenced to death.
    World War I was also the first war where large-scale propaganda was employed to persuade people that it was a man’s duty to enlist. Some of this propaganda was subtle, as in the posters below, or through novels - like The 39 Steps. Other propaganda was more overt (such as the giving of white feathers).
                                          
    When the First World War broke out, only the Society of Friends (Quakers) was organised for action. Anglicans were largely untroubled by their consciences because the 37th of the Church of England’s 39 Articles states “It is lawful for Christian men, at the commandment of the Magistrate, to wear weapons, and serve in the wars.” In contrast, the Quakers made the following declaration on the war in November 1914:

All war is utterly incompatible with the plain precepts of our Divine Lord and Lawgiver, and with the whole spirit and tenor of His Gospel, and that no plea of necessity or of policy, however urgent or peculiar, can avail to release either individuals or nations from the paramount allegiance which they owe unto Him who said ‘Love your enemies.’…. To-day many of our fellow-countrymen are impelled to enlist by a sense of chivalry towards the weak…To-day again the members of our Society, especially the younger men, are entering upon a time of testing. We can well understand the appeal to noble instincts which makes men desire to risk their lives for their country. To turn from this call may seem to be a lower choice. In many cases it means braving the scorn of those who only interpret it as cowardice. To not a few it means the loss of employment. The highest sacrifice is to contribute to a more Christlike idea of service. Those who hear the call to this service, who respond to it, will be helping their nation in the great spiritual conflicts which it must wage.

    John William Graham, in his volume Conscription and Conscience took the definite view that the government had certainly known - when declaring war on Germany - that it would need to introduce conscription. The first step towards conscription came in July 1915 in the form of a National Registration Scheme, a type of census which recorded the occupations of men and women between the ages of 15 and 65. The information gathered under this scheme showed that there were around 1.8 million men of fighting age who were neither enlisted nor involved in vital ‘war work.’ The scheme played right into the hands of the pro-conscriptionists and Lord Northcliffe, owner of both The Times and Daily Mail, used the findings to demand, via his newspapers, that these ‘slackers’ be forced to serve.
    On 27 January 1916 the Military Service Act became law in Britain. The Act applied to every unmarried man between the ages of 18 and 41, exempting eight classes of men. Any man who did not fit into one of these classes was ‘deemed to have enlisted for the period of the War’ as of Thursday, 2 March, 1916. Note that men did not have to go and enlist, they were deemed to have enlisted, and had to attend a tribunal hearing if they wanted to be exempted. Between 750,000 men applied for an exemption to the tribunals between January and July 1916, and the sheer weight of cases, along with national sentiment compelling men to go to war, meant that the Tribunals usually gave short shrift to all applicants. Only 350 total exemptions were granted by the time the war ended.
    While Christians took (and still take) differing approaches towards war, this paper is focussing on those who refused to fight, and often, refused to take part in any form of war-work.  It should be noted that some Quakers and other Christians joined The Friends’ Ambulance Unit which provided relief and medical aid to soldiers and civilians caught up in war in France.  In the light of the World War I, and later World War II, experience how can Christians serve their nation, loving both their neighbours and their enemies? Especially when they often find that their neighbours have become their enemies because the Christian is holding to his conviction that his allegiance to the Kingdom of God is greater than his allegiance to the United Kingdom, and his obedience to Jesus Christ is greater than his obedience to the State.
    If living in a democracy truly means that a man is free to think as he believes, and that he is not subjected to the tyranny of a totalitarian state compelling him to do things with which not only does he not agree (but, in this case, completely abhors) then there must be a place for Christians and other conscientious objectors within a society at war.
 

How might a Christian conscientious objector be identified?

    A democratic State, for its part, will no doubt wish to acknowledge that a free society allows for freedom of conscience, but will not want to allow individuals feigning faith. Especially in times of war, the State wants its citizens to swear their highest allegiance to it. Those individuals disobeying a direct command of the State will always be viewed with suspicion, particularly if that command involves sending a man to ‘defend’ the State, and he refuses. Thus, before considering what kind of work a Christian conscientious objector might do for his country, the genuine Christian conscientious objector will need to be identified. The following list might help form a useful definition for the State.
    i) Can the applicant, in an effort to prove that he is opposed to war based on the teachings of Jesus Christ, produce a Baptism certificate, or the written or verbal evidence of at least two witnesses, that he has been baptised, as evidence of his faith and obedience to the Lord (Matthew 28:19)?
    ii) Can the applicant produce a letter, or signed statement, from a vicar, minister, pastor, or church elder, confirming that he is a member, or regular attendee, at a Christian church, chapel, or congregation (Hebrews 10:24-25)?
    iii) Can the applicant provide a clear statement, either verbal or written, explaining in his own words why he believes Jesus Christ forbids him to fight (Luke 9:54-56: John 18:36)?

What kind of work might a Christian conscientious objector do?

    Some Christians who hold to Jesus’ command ‘Love thy enemies’ will feel, according to their conscience, that they cannot assist the State in any form of work which may be connected to war. Others however, may feel that as long as they were not being directed by non-Christians (on the grounds that no man can serve two masters) they might be willing to serve the nation in some particular capacity.
    The unwavering example of conscientious objectors in World War I meant that when World War II ‘broke out’, the pacifist position was better established. Although men who didn’t enlist still faced hostility from their neighbours, friends and colleagues, there were different areas in which some felt they could serve their country. 465 men, for instance, joined bomb disposal teams during the course of World War II. Over 6,000 conscientious objectors served in the fourteen companies of the Non-Combatant Corps. Many thousands who were exempted from war duty were given exemptions on the condition that they served in land units.
    Early in 1940, Henry Carter, a Methodist Minister, set up Christian Pacifist Forestry and Land Units (CPFLU) to answer the needs of conscientious objectors looking for work on the land. One of these, James Hanmer, who had been a teacher before the war, was given conditional exemption provided he worked the land. He joined a CPFLU at the village of Bardney, Lincolnshire, and later wrote:

There were twelve people, managing themselves, feeding themselves, one would be a cook for three months and then somebody else would take a turn if he wanted to be a cook for three months, self governing. Now this man who organised this was very wise - he’d have half Methodists to provide a kind of basis, this was the normal pattern, and then there’d be Quakers, Salvation Army, Plymouth Brethren, one Anglo-Catholic. It was open to anyone.

Conclusion
    
    Government officials are fond of employing the phrase ‘lessons will be learnt from this [disaster/tragedy/department failure etc].’ It would be prudent therefore, in a time of war, if the State had prepared itself by reviewing and preparing an even-handed, non-coercive policy towards conscientious objectors. In many cases these men will be acting courageously as they stand against the popular current of war fever. It is the opinion of this writer (who has been a Christian for over 40 years) that the best placed men to organise themselves to serve their neighbours, to love the widow and the fatherless, are the Christian men themselves (as opposed to some over-seeing governmental department). With men (and to a lesser extent, women) involved in military duties, fewer men will be available for those essential industries which provide food and fuel for the nation, industries such as agriculture, fishing and forestry. The government could, in a time of war, call for older Christian men to volunteer to organise a small unit of men to do work which, if they did not do it, would not be done. These older volunteers could then respond to the government and say, “I will put together a team of [x] men who will do [y] work. I will manage them, and take responsibility for their well-being, while they carry out an essential service in the district of [z].”
    Such a policy would relieve the State of trying to encourage lambs to be lions, and free its resources into other areas. Meanwhile, older Christian men would be able to employ their intellect, skills, and network of contacts, to find useful work (and perhaps, in some cases, accommodation) for those who men who wish to love their neighbours and their enemies by not picking up arms against them.
    For instance, the author of this paper has contacts who live near Loch Tay, Scotland, who have a property with many trees that need felling. The wood would be mostly useful as firewood (as opposed to use for furniture etc), but a team of men could go there, harvest and prepare the wood for sale, and then the wood could be sold to those who need it, either locally, or in Westmorland (where the writer resides), or in other English counties. Thus the work would be funded by the sale of the wood, would not require government funding or oversight, while simultaneously providing useful work for the conscientious objector and serving the nation in a time of hardship.
    No doubt there are many Christian men throughout the country who, although unwilling to take the life of men they don’t know (at the command of men in London whom they also don’t know), if asked, would be willing to use their talents for the support of the nation, in their various counties, and among their own neighbourhoods. All the State needs to do is ask for help, for as Jesus Christ teaches his disciples, ‘Whosoever asks, receives.’

 

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